Thursday, December 26, 2019

A Byoot of a Suit


Here's another favorite find of the year, that I wish I was wearing and enjoying at a hot destination right now!


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What a Relief! One of the most ingenious finds of the year happened to be a one-piece swimsuit. Due to what I call a battle scar from surgery (and a little bit of vanity), I’ve abandoned two-piece swimsuits and bikinis. But one-pieces do pose a minor problem. During a trip of sun, fun and rum punch, while lounging at the pool I kept taking bathroom breaks. If you wear one-pieces, you know how frustrating it can be to remove a coverup, pull down a wet bathing suit, then pull it back up. It’s a pain! 

So fellow one-piece swimsuit wearers, do I have a swimsuit for you! I was sent a Byoót suit for review in my style column and I was relieved (in more ways than one). 

Byoót swimsuits have buttons at the sides for easy bathroom-break access. At first I was nervous about the buttons falling off, as buttons often do, but so far so good. I just make sure to test the tightness of the buttons when I wear it, but they’re pretty secure.




The swimsuits run small, so if you’re on the border of two sizes, they suggest that you choose the larger of the two. The Byoót suit comes in various styles. The Classic Black Suit above is $99.


For information visit byootcompany.com

Wednesday, December 25, 2019

How to Harness a Positive Mindset by Using Intention Scenting


As the year draws to an end, I often start reflecting on the past twelve months and then set new intentions for the year ahead. I usually set daily intentions, but it was especially important to do so during the winter solstice, as well as during the new moon and partial solar eclipse later this evening. 



This year I discovered a new way of setting intentions:

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Intention Scenting: I started using the Intention Gifting Set from Pinrose, which was a special gift set offered for St. Valentine’s Day. It included Pinrose’s Rollerball Kit (nine rollerballs of each Pinrose scent), a deck of intention cards and a rose quartz (a bonus for V-Day since rose quartz crystals help open the heart chakra and promote unconditional love), and a step-by-step guide to Intention Scenting. Intention scenting is pairing a fragrance with an intention (mindful commitment to yourself). It is meant to add a moment of self-care during your beauty routine by helping you “harness the power of a positive mindset throughout your day.” There are nine positive intentions (such as Gratitude, Strength, Optimism, Intuition) with each fragrance based on the mood and feeling each scent evokes.

As instructed I shuffled the nine intention cards face down and thought about something I needed clarity and guidance on in my life. I then fanned the cards out face down in front of me and let my “energy” guide me to a card. I picked Secret Genius — the guardian of Intuition. Secret Genius encourages you to tap into your intuitive inner-voice. 






The kit guides you through a moment of self-reflection and I mindfully applied the fragrance while setting an intention to start my day with a positive mindset. (As you smell the fragrance on you throughout your day, it serves as a gentle reminder of your intention.)



Today I chose the Tambourine Dreamer card. Tambourine Dreamer is the spirit of gratitude, who helps remind us of the abundance of the universe. It says she is also supportive during high days of celebration (like Christmas) and moments of pure love between friends and family. Very fitting. Tambourine Dreamer helps you appreciate the bounty of your life. The fragrance is lovely and uplifting. 

Pinrose currently offers a similar kit, the Good Intentions Kit ($25), which comes with eight Good Intention Cards and eight 0.5 fl oz, eau de parfum sprays.

For information visit Pinrose.com



Tuesday, December 24, 2019

How to Be Comfy on Christmas


Continuing on with my second favorite thing from 2019…

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Have a Comfy Christmas. The Comfy is a perfect thing to post on Christmas Eve because (in red or burgundy) it reminds me of a Santa costume, especially when worn with the matching Comfy Feet slippers. I’m sure it would keep Santa warm at the North Pole. Oh, and crazy enough, there are, or perhaps I should say were special holiday Comfys in Santa, Reindeer and Elf designs for both kids and adults. At this time, most are sold-out. 



The original Comfy (in one size fits all for adults and teens), has a huge hood, giant front pocket (big enough to hold your smartphone, but don’t, just don’t!), and is made of velvety soft fleece, with a fluffy sherpa fleece lining (100% polyester—so it can be machine washed and tumble dried on a low setting). Wearing The Comfy is much better than my trying to write while snuggled up in flannel sheets on my bed, which is what I was doing when the cold weather set in, before the heat was on. At least now I can be warm in this comfortable combination blanket and sweatshirt, working at a desk like a normal person, without getting carpal tunnel, neck and shoulder pains, or falling asleep. Plus, it’s hard to get up and move around draped in a blanket! 



The Comfy ($44.99) and Comfy Feet ($14.99) are sold at several stores and online sites.


For more information visit the comfy.com

Monday, December 23, 2019

My Infinite Agenda


To get an earlier start on one of the intentions I set for 2020 (get my Summers Retreat blog back up and running), I am presenting a countdown of ten of my favorite things from 2019. 

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“Imagine the life you want and build it.” First up is My Infinite Agenda, a combination daily/monthly planner, gratitude/intentions journal and vision board. My Infinite Agenda has several features to help you set your goals and dreams, and track your progress. It has a 12-month calendar, two-year calendar overview, section trackers for gratitude, short-term goals, long-term goals and wildest dreams, weekly layout pages where you can write down your plans for the day, along with daily goal setting and daily gratitude lined prompts, end of the month pages to track your successes, plus motivational stickers and inspirational quotes. 



My Infinite Agenda is available in dated planners ($58), undated (6-month) planners, ($29) and midyear planners (August start) $39.  There are also planners you can purchase with proceeds going to charities such as charity: water, an organization dedicated to making water to clean and safe worldwide.


For more information visit Myinfiniteagenda.com

Sunday, April 21, 2019

Can a Sunscreen Really Be Reef Safe?

All through the month of April, I’ve been getting emails about products that are “eco-friendly” and “environmentally friendly” in preparation for Earth Day (April 22) coverage. With summer approaching, I’ve also been seeing a lot of sunscreens labeled “reef safe.” Is this just another buzz word like “natural” and “organic” that, because of loopholes, can easily be manipulated just to sell a product? Can a sunscreen really be reef safe?

The bad news is, no sunscreen is going to be 100% safe for reefs, oceans and marine life. I’m not even confident that the sunscreens deemed safe for human use are actually safe. But there are things that can be done to lessen the environmental impact of sunscreens on the marine ecosystem. 


Photo: Alicia 3690 from Pixabay

Not Tons of Fun

An estimated 6,000 - 14,000 tons of sunscreen per year washes off the skin of swimmers and water sports enthusiasts and winds up in the oceans and reefs. So using reef safe products is definitely a must. 

Being called reef safe doesn’t guarantee that all ingredients are completely safe. Even “natural” sunscreen and skincare products have ingredients that overtime can cause problems. But there are things we can do to lessen their environmental impact.

1. Pick sunscreens that are formulated without oxybenzone and octinoxate. Studies have shown that these particular chemical sunscreen ingredients are detrimental to marine life. Studies have also shown that oxybenzone contributes to coral bleaching,  damage to coral DNA and to zooxanthellae, photosynthetic algae that lives inside coral tissues. (More on this later.)

2. Choose a mineral sunscreen.  Chemical sunscreens tend to be more irritating to the skin, in addition to having more potentially harmful ingredients. Chemical sunscreens, however, tend to give more protection from UV rays and some individuals may feel they need more protection than mineral sunscreens provide. If possible, save the mineral sunscreen for when you will be in the ocean and waterways and use chemical sunscreens to protect against sun exposure during outdoor/non-water activities. 

3. Look for non nano ingredients. If you do choose a mineral sunscreen, it should contain non nano zinc oxide or titanium dioxide. Nano particles lesser than 100 nanometers can clog coral pores. Coral provides a protective environment for the zooxanthellae living inside. Once the pores are blocked from sunlight, the algae can’t grow. All of this causes a chain reaction. Algae provides oxygen and essential nutrients to coral. When coral become stressed, they expel the algal cells, becoming white (known as coral bleaching). This can eventually result in the corals’ death.

4. Choose sunscreens without parabens, such as butylparaben — better for you and the ocean.

5. Other ingredients to avoid — homosaltate, octocrylene, 4-methybenzylidene camphor, retinyl palmitate.

6. Look for biodegradable ingredients often found in the more natural sunscreens — plant-based ingredients like aloe vera and green tea that help provide protection and will take less time to disintegrate than regular sunscreen ingredients. The longer chemicals take to disintegrate, the further damage to the environment.

7. A water-resistant sunscreen is better, since less of the ingredients will wash off into the ocean.

8. Use UPF-rated clothing. It's not always an option, but whenever possible, cover more of your body with UPF (ultraviolet protection factor) clothing. You'll have less skin exposed and therefore will need less sunscreen.



Love Sun Body sunscreens have non-nano zinc oxide and/or titanium dioxide (depending on the SPF level) and natural, food-grade ingredients — no parabens, synthetic perfumes, dyes, GMO, animal-derived ingredients. The sunscreens also meet both U.S. and European regulatory requirements and are the first and only sunscreens in the U.S. certified by Ecocert Cosmos Natural (the international standard for organic and natural cosmetics and skincare products.) Love Sun Body also received a best score of 1 (out of 10) rating by the Environmental Working Group (EWG). The formulas are also water and sweat-resistant up to 80 minutes.  



MyChelle sunscreens, including Sun Shield Clear Spray SPF 30 and Sun Shield Liquid SPF 50 (Non-Tinted) provide broad spectrum protection (non nano zinc oxide and/or titanium dioxide) with reef friendly ingredients. The sunscreen is formulated without phthalates, parabens, sulfates, artificial fragrances and colors, and GMOs.

Tuesday, February 19, 2019

Toni Braxton Breaks Hearts at the Borgata


Over the weekend, I traveled to Atlantic City to see Toni Braxton at the Borgata Event Center. It’s been a long time since I’ve been to an actual concert. I also hadn’t been to Atlantic City or the Borgata Hotel Casino & Spa in more than a decade. In a former life I reviewed concerts and nightclub performances, so it was fun to sit in the audience without a notepad and a penlight, and just enjoy the show.

LeLee, Taj & Coko of SWV.
Photo: Courtesy of Borgata Hotel Casino & Spa

These Sisters Have Voices!

I was surprised how entertained I was by opening act SWV. To tell you the truth, I didn’t know what to expect after seeing the SWV Reunited reality show that aired back in 2014. That show didn't put them in the best light. I’ve always been impressed with Coko’s chops, but Taj was on fire that night. LeLee was playing the role of emcee and doing a great job. The trio was working it like their lives depended on it. It was also amusing to hear people in the audience making comments like: “I didn’t know that was their song!” “Oh, I know that song. I love that song.” "I remember that song. I never knew who sang it." Yep. They had a lot of jams. Remember “Weak” and “Right Here”? 

Toni Braxton performs at the Borgata Event Center
Photo: Courtesy of Borgata Hotel Casino & Spa

Did Toni Really Break Down?

Toni’s repertoire is mostly ballads, so you don’t expect to be dancing in the aisles. (Although that didn't stop her fans from standing up and blocking my view. Sigh.) Her show involves a lot of audience interaction and participation. At one point she invited a 16-year-old onstage who was celebrating her birthday, and a couple of audience members to sing a few lyrics from a song. (The man was a fail, the woman was actually very good.) Later on in the show, Toni “broke down” during “Un-Break My Heart,” a song she apparently now dedicates to her late aunt. I have no doubt that she gets emotional thinking about her when she performs her aunt’s favorite TB song, but she really milked it. It was sort of like her Please Please Please (James Brown) moment. Her fans loved it.

Mase performs at the Premier Nightclub at the Borgata.
Photo: Gerrie Summers

Welcome Back Mase

Later on we stopped by the Premier Nightclub where Mase was going to perform. He took forever to come on and only did three songs at that. The DJ had to coax him back on for the third one. Mase said he couldn’t remember the words.  Now, I don’t know if he was just not prepared to do it or actually didn’t remember the words, but I’m not gonna say nuthin’ about someone forgetting anything! Or course the crowd could have done the song for him, because they knew every single word to the hits he did. 

Flip Like Wilson

I also enjoyed the Gypsy Bar,  a rock n’ roll tequila bar with live music. On Saturday night the music was by Flip Like Wilson, a cover band that has an eclectic list of songs and had me dancing in the VIP section. (Either that or I was very drunk.) Kidding folks. They were good.

If you’re interested in upcoming shows at the Borgata Event Center or Gypsy Bar, or other things to do at the Borgata, visit the website Borgata Hotel Casino & Spa


Sunday, September 9, 2018

Texture on the Runway 2018 Celebrating 20 Years with NaturallyCurly

More than 800 media, influencers, VIPs and fashion/beauty enthusiasts packed Gotham Hall to celebrate NaturallyCurly’s signature event Texture on the Runway on Thursday, September 6, kicking off New York Spring 2019 Fashion Week.  Sally Beauty returned as the retail sponsor for the popular runway show. 

This year I was among the crowd. I write about hair health for Real Health magazine and products for my blogs and other outlets, but I never attended a Texture on the Runway show until now. I’m hooked. It was wonderful to see all the fierce sisters on the runway and the audience with glorious waves, coils, curls, fros and locks. (The hair often got in the way of several of my shots, but I had a blast.) 

NaturallyCurly Co-founder Michelle Breyer (L) and recording artist Amara La Negra


This year’s event also celebrated NaturallyCurly’s 20th anniversary. Naturally Curly was founded in 1998 and provided support, inspiration and education to an underserved natural and textured hair community. NaturallyCurly launched Texture on the Runway in 2012. The idea rose out of co-founder Michelle Breyer’s frustration with the lack of diversity and inclusivity on the Fashion Week runways. “As I covered Fashion Week, I was disappointed to see that the models on the runway didn’t reflect the diversity of our community,” she says. “We decided to create an event that celebrated texture and inclusion, and we wanted to do it during Fashion Week.”


The 2018 Texture on the Runway show was definitely a reflection of the crowd, with impressive braids, dreadlocks, twists, afros and textured curls. Presenters on the runway were Camille Rose Naturals, Cantu Beauty, Carol’s Daughter, Creme of Nature, Mielle Organics, SheaMoisture and The Mane Choice.

Camille Rose Naturals

Camille Rose Naturals presented exotic styles influenced by the Amazonian forest, South Pacific and Middle East to reflect the exotic ingredients used in the Around the World collection like Amazonian buriti fruit oil and Middle Eastern oud oil. (More on this in a later post.)

A model walks the Camille Rose runway. Photo: Monica Schipper/Getty Images for NaturallyCurly


Another exotic look on a model walking the Camille Rose runway. Photo: Monica Schipper/Getty Images for Naturally Curly

A model walks the Camille Rose runway. Photo: Monica Schipper/Getty Images for NaturallyCurly


Cantu Beauty

The “Faces of Cantu: Head Over Heels for Texture” presentation showcased textured hairstyles by hairstylist/textured hair expert Maria Antoinette paired with colorful “kaleidoscope of hope” fabrics from textile designer/artist Melissa A. Mitchell of Abeille Creations.




A model walks the runway for Cantu Beauty. Photo: Monica Schipper/Getty Images for NaturallyCurly


Head over heels for Cantu's colorful show. Photo: Monica Schipper/Getty Images for NaturallyCurly


Carol’s Daughter

Carol’s Daughter co-founder Lisa Price introduced the show by spitting rhymes (!) accompanied by dancers. The presentation featured actual mothers and their daughters as models. Lead stylists Derick Monroe and Gabrielle Corney used the Pracaxi Nectar style line to create the hairstyles.


A model walks the runway for Carol's Daughter. Photo: Monica Schipper/Getty Images for Naturally Curly



Founder Lisa Price and daughter Becca. Photo: Monica Schipper/Getty Images for Naturally Curly

A model on the Carol's Daughter runway. Photo: Monica Schipper/Getty Images for NaturallyCurly


Creme of Nature

Creme of Nature proclaimed that they were shifting the culture and redefining the future of universal style and texture with an Afrofuturism runway featuring the “Afro Punk Urban Queen,” wearing fashions by De La Cruz New York and hairstyles by celebrity hairstylist Pekela Riley.


A model walks the Creme of Nature runway.  Photo: Monica Schipper/Getty Images for Naturally Curly

Loved the textured hair (and the glasses) on the Creme of Nature runway. Photo: Monica Schipper/Getty Images for Naturally Curly

A model walks the Creme of Nature runway. Photo: Monica Schipper/Getty Images for NaturallyCurly


Mielle Organics

Hairstyles and looks were inspired by the woman warriors of Wakanda. Lead stylist Key Glover created the styles using the Promenade and Honey collection. There was also a great symbolic message about competition among women to wear the “crown.” The presentation began with the women fighting over who would possess the crown, with one taking the crown from the another, followed by a segment in which they shared the crown. It ended with each queen being presented with her own individual crown. I thought it was a great reminder that we should support one another.


A model walks the Mielle Organics runway. Photo: Monica Schipper/Getty Images for Naturally Curly

The Mielle Organics runway show was inspired by the women warriors of Wakanda. Photo: Monica Schipper/Getty Images for NaturallyCurly

A model walks the Mielle Organics runway. Photo: Monica Schipper/Getty Images for Naturally Curly


SheaMoisture

SheaMoisture’s “Celebrating Our Shine” presentation showcased the beauty and versatility of textured hair with styles created using the Jamaican Black Castor Oil Strengthen and Restore Hair Care collection overseen by celebrity stylist and SheaMoisture Textured Hair Ambassador Diane C. Bailey. The show also featured Davina Bennett, Miss Jamaica and SheaMoisture Jamaican Black Castor Oil Brand Ambassador.

Davina Bennett walks the SheaMoisture runway. Photo: Monica Schipper/Getty Images for Naturally Curly


Closeup of a model on the SheaMoisture runway. Photo: Monica Schipper/Getty Images for NaturallyCurly

A model on the SheaMoisture runway. Photo: Monica Schipper/Getty Images for NaturallyCurly

A model walks the SheaMoisture runway. Photo: Monica Schipper/Getty Images for NaturallyCurly


The Mane Choice

The Mane Choice runway show featured bold, fun and colorful over-the-top hairstyles. Their goal, they said, was to showcase how their brand is taking strides to empower and offer solutions to all textures.


A model walks the runway for The Mane Choice. Photo: Monica Schipper/Getty Images for NaturallyCurly



A model walks The Mane Choice runway. Photo: Monica Schipper/Getty Images for NaturallyCurly

Amara La Negra Performs

Recording artist and Love & Hip Hop Miami star Amara La Negra performs at Texture on the Runway. Photo: Monica Schipper/Getty Images for NaturallyCurly